When you fail in your love life the first time, don't give up hope and tell yourself that you will never ever love again.  Loving and losing is better than having not loved at all.  We feel so frustrated and down whenever we lost someone we dearly love but remember there is always a second, third and fourth chance when we fail for the first time.  And loving the next time will surely be better than the first.

As you grow older, you would realize that loving is such a beautiful experience in life.  There is no age limit when it comes to love.  Even old people are capable of loving and the more you love the more you would feel younger.  Older people are often advised to keep loving in order for their hearts to function better and live a longer life.  if you have no partner now and you are reaching old age, try to find a partner to keep you alert everyday and to keep you alive.  By doing that you would be helping yourself become healthier and happier.

If you failed the first time in love, loving the second time around would be better as you learned from your mistakes and you would be more careful to make your love life work the second time.  Let the past be forgotten and never compare your previous partner to your new partner.  The best thing to do is make the relationship work by talking to your partner and knowing him better.  Second time love should work out better if you truly make yourself understand the essence of loving.  Giving space enough for your partner is very important but don't tolerate him to cheat on you nor abuse you.

Learn from you past experience and let that be a guiding star for you to handle your relationship with your new love one better than the past. 

Have you ever closed your eyes while you are in a bus, a train , a plane or just sitting at home doing nothing, then trying to make your nose work and catch a smell that reminds you of something?  It could remind you of a person, a place, or anything.  Sometimes, you smell something that gives you a nostalgic feeling.  Sometimes too, a scent that reminds you of a beloved one.  And a few times, an aroma of food you loved which is associated with someone so dear to you.  Scents keep our senses awake and make us alert while remembering what was that scent you just smelled.

I love the smell of pine trees.  I had spent my childhood in a mountainous region where pine trees abound.  The scent of pine trees around always filled the air and made my childhood even more meaningful and easy to remember.  When I smell pine trees, my childhood days comes back to me.  I once hopped in an air-conditioned bus that smelt of pine trees.  I closed my eyes and my childhood memories came flashing back.  The smell helped transport my mind in the past.

Scents do remind us with good and bad memories.  Sometimes I shed tears when I smell a very familiar scent related to a sad past.  It really makes me feel the impact of what happened in the past.  The smell of something relevant to a happy past would make me smile even if I am alone.  Pancakes being cooked always reminds me of my grandmother who was a great cook.  She always cooked pancake with mushed ripe bananas.  I couldn't forget how all of us her grandchildren always visited her because of her special banana pancakes.  When I grew older and I cooked banana pancake, it seemed so different from what grandmother cooked for us.  I wanted to believe that what she cooked was the same as mine but to be honest I haven't tasted any pancake that could match that of my grandmother's.

Scents are very important reminders.  When we want to remember something in the past we could associate them with the smell of something.