When you fail in your love life the first time, don't give up hope and tell yourself that you will never ever love again.  Loving and losing is better than having not loved at all.  We feel so frustrated and down whenever we lost someone we dearly love but remember there is always a second, third and fourth chance when we fail for the first time.  And loving the next time will surely be better than the first.

As you grow older, you would realize that loving is such a beautiful experience in life.  There is no age limit when it comes to love.  Even old people are capable of loving and the more you love the more you would feel younger.  Older people are often advised to keep loving in order for their hearts to function better and live a longer life.  if you have no partner now and you are reaching old age, try to find a partner to keep you alert everyday and to keep you alive.  By doing that you would be helping yourself become healthier and happier.

If you failed the first time in love, loving the second time around would be better as you learned from your mistakes and you would be more careful to make your love life work the second time.  Let the past be forgotten and never compare your previous partner to your new partner.  The best thing to do is make the relationship work by talking to your partner and knowing him better.  Second time love should work out better if you truly make yourself understand the essence of loving.  Giving space enough for your partner is very important but don't tolerate him to cheat on you nor abuse you.

Learn from you past experience and let that be a guiding star for you to handle your relationship with your new love one better than the past.