Do you know your man enough?  Relationships often end up a failure because partners do not know each other.  There are times when we thought we know our partners very well that we make drastic decisions and we often commit the worst mistake in our life.  And before we know it we are already committed to someone who is the opposite of the man we are looking for.  Living with someone who doesn't match the man you had expected is like living with an enemy.  And before that thing will happen  make sure you are not  going out with a con man,  a man who shows nothing of his real self and who makes you feel like the most important woman in this wold.

He was the nicest person I'd ever known.  He wasn't really the man of my dreams when I met him but he made me feel like a real woman.  I was flattered by his charms.  He looked so genuinely nice and a real gentleman, keeping me company when the need arises, letting me have the bigger share of everything.  The things that I want were also what he wanted.  We never fought over something and we spent a lot of romantic moments.  Often, he would call in the wee hours of the night just to say I love you. He never fails to say I'm sorry when he has done something wrong.  Sometimes I don't even understand why he is asking for an apology.  With all those nice things I know about him, he was able to fool me. 

He provided me with the things I loved and needed then dumped me like a garbage.  I once thought he was not the man I had known but he was there looking down at me and telling me how sorry he was that everything between us had to end.  Just like that!  There seems to be nothing left for me to say that moment.  As I studied his face, I knew pretty well that since the start he had planted a thorn in me to uproot once it was embedded too deep to hurt.  I waited for myself to burst out the pain but nothing happened.  I was numbed and felt nothing at all.  He held my hand and tried to say sorry again but  I finally came to my senses.  I didn't cry.  I raised a hand and let it land with a loud smack on his face.  Then ran away without looking back at him.

Beware of a man who shows perfect manners,who  never speaks a word even if you are in your worst moods.  He might be like the man I almost loved.  A healthy relationship is one with the proper ingredients.  A relationship is better if partners make mistakes, feel jealous at the right time, fight with each other once in a while and have different opinions about some things.  Partners feel more comfortable with each other if they are open to discussions and are honest enough to comment on their partners when needed.