Love?  They say that a person in love is blind.  Blind of all the realities that comes with loving someone.  But is love really blind?  No.  Love is not blind but the lovers are.  When one is in love, she sees nothing wrong with the one she loves.  She looks at his partner as a perfect person who is right even if he is wrong.  She looks at him as the most wonderful man even if he is not.  Wrong things often turn out to be right to someone in love and what is bad becomes good and the ugly becomes beautiful.

But setting aside the blindness in love, one could only tell she is in love if she looks at both sides of the coin.  She must look at the person as he really is and try to understand him even in his flaws and shortcomings.  Being in love is accepting the person with what he is and what he has and not trying to change him to be a better person to your liking.  True love accepts the wrongs in a person and understands situations that sometimes others could not comprehend at all.

When one is truly in love, she looks at things in the bright side and sets aside the darker side of situations.  It is not ignoring the wrongs being committed but it is accepting them and truly trying to understand them.  Loving means being honest enough to look at the wrong things in your partner and accepting them rather than insisting on a change.  Changing your partner doesn't  work and is not what true love is all about.  If you love, be ready to accept what your partner is.  For there is no sweeter thing on earth than being in love and feeling real love.